A Quick Pick Me Up!

Okay it’s Saturday, and so far today, I’ve had 2 meetings, 1 consultation, a meeting with a potential new vendor (I plan weddings and events for a living), and two birthday parties later today.  So it’s safe to say that my day kicked off with a great and very early start.

So, I’m tired as usual but full of creativity and a lot of stamina.  My consultation ended on a great note, so hopefully I land my new, busy and undecisive client (she’s in her own words “a bridezilla, so she is unsure if she should allow someone to plan her wedding, because she likes to be sooo hands on”).  I reassured her, I’ve dealt with clients like her before, and I have no problem with her being hands on,  but since she is intending to pay me for my services, I would prefer she sit back and relax and try to  understand that like Allstate, she’s in good hands.

 I will let you know in about a week of so, if I have gained another happy client.  Now on to explaining the title of this blog.  For business purposes, I travel in and out of the city working and planning, I tend to meet quite a few potentials (in regards to dating that is), so today, I met a really handsome gentleman.  I mean he had on a his weekend attire, but boy did he have on his fresh out the shower and barber shop look on.  Wheww, did me in.  I love a fresh, clean smelling guy.  What it does, what it does, TO ME!  Needless to say, I caught his eye, and he definitely caught mine.

This is just how it happened, then I had my turn.

I mean, what is a inextricably beautiful woman doing at the post office on a Saturday morning, at 10 a.m. in business attire.  This was definitely a good cause to strike up a conversation and many more to come, if I might add.  Hey you never know; it could lead to something wonderful, he could wind up being a very good friend and/or a great business reference, or another one of my big brothers who I lean on for advice.    We shall see, because whatever the case, I love adding great, and positive people to my circle.

Can you say, “A Quick Pick me Up!!!  Indeed it is.


So when is the word B#$%@, used as a term of endearment.

Ladies, we really must get away from the word B@#$%.  How can you expect a guy to respect you when you allow him to call you this?  When did we allow this word, to become a philosophical term of endearment?

Why is it, that when a guy calls you a five star B@#$%, a Diamond B@#$%, a classy B@#$%, or anything that personifies something good being mixed with this word, its a compliment.  But if he calls you just a B@#$% then there is a problem.  Women rise above this standard of allowing yourselves to be denigrated.  Please do not allow the acronyms that are used in place of this word, to fool you.  No B@#$%, does not stand for, “Beautiful, Individual That Causes Hardons”, or “Beautiful, Intelligent, Talented, Creative and Honest”, or “Babe In Total Control of Herself.”  The definition of B@#$% is, in its noun form, the female of the dog or some other carnivorous mammals; a lewd, or immoral woman; a malicious, spiteful, or overbearing woman – sometimes as a generalized term of abuse.

Please explain to me, which one of those definitions personifies who you are? Rise above, stand up and learn from this.  The only person who should affect your growth, should be you.  Try not to start, by using this word to describe who you are, or what you are, because I’m sure that you think more of yourself at the end of the day than this.  At least, I hope you do.  I’m here to inform you of the beautiful, loving, caring, understanding, strong, intelligent women you are and/or should be. 

God bless you on your future growth.  Make sure you let the next guy, female, or anyone for that matter, know that you are not a b@#$%, but you are one of the rarest jewels ever.  Tell them to call you Ruby, because your worth, is far more than a diamond.

In the word’s of the female rapper, Yo-Yo, “…you gotta let them know, you ain’t a B@#$% or a hoe.”

Da Fyrst Lady