Too Much Vision…Is There Such a Thing???

Have you ever felt like you had so  much to give to the world, but not enough time and resources to make one of those ventures pop?  Well at the moment, I’m feeling that way.  I’ve experienced so much in life and I have yet so many gifts to share, I’m just not sure which one to pursue at present.  The feeling its  beyond describable.  I still know and feel that these contributions to society will be made, but what I am unsure of, is in what order.

In regards to my writing, I’ve always known I was gifted with pen and paper, but should this book in the works be my first gift to the world?  Then my love and personality for inspiring women through recreating a new, yet powerful woman through Mary Kay.  I just love me some makeup, and the attitudes of my sister/girlfriends when they look and feel better…there is nothing as rewarding.  Then there is a gift that I discovered that I have, through a course entitled, “Spiritual Gifts”.  Well it wasn’t a completely new discovery, it’s something I knew all along, but tried to abandon in the back of my mind for as long as I could, until it came creeping out through the many stages of events my life propelled in…Working with Babies, Children and Teens. 

Working with the various ages of kids, had to be formulated through a love for ALL children, because if you go into it for money, then you will lack in other areas, and the children will not be fed the essentials they will need in life, which will equate to extremely unsatisfied parents.  As a parent, I know exactly how this feel, which is my reason for adamantly pursuing this spiritual gift full fledge.  I want to create a safe, stable, loving, yet learning environment for all ages 6 wks – 17.  Just know, it’s in the works!!

Last but not least, my  childhood dream, of being a successful designer of fashion and jewelery, and an extraordinary event/wedding planner.   Now isn’t that a lot of vision for one person, I beg to differ, because that is just the person that I am.  I’m multifaceted, multitalented, creative, supportive, loving, understanding and a believer of making your dreams a reality. 

Keep your eyes glued to the tizzube for this face,


  lbvs.  Because one of these ventures/dreams are in the making NOW!!

What dreams are you making a reality?


2012 Valentine’s Day Giveaway

Good morning all,

Considering this is my second post in two weeks, I can definitely say that I am on the road to accomplishing one of my resolutions for the year, blogging at least once a week.  We shall see how that pans out, since there are at least 11 months and a little over two weeks left in the year.

Oh well, on to the reason for this post.  As everyone should know by now, I am a Mary Kay Beauty Consultant, and I absolutely love Mary Kay Products and the fact that my clients leave my presence knowing how to better take care of their skin, and looking amazingly beautiful.  So I’ve decided to host a Valentine’s Day giveaway in order to introduce products that will enhance the lives of others, the way that mine has been.  So here it is!!

You have many opportunities to enter, you can like my Facebook page by clicking the link to the left of this post and state that, “I want to be entered into the V-Day Giveaway.”  You can follow me on twitter @dafyrstlady, click the link to the left of this post and tweet, “Enter me into the V-Day Giveaway.”,  you can email me at or sign up at my website at

***Remember, you have to state that you want to be entered in the V-Day Giveway to be entered!!***


Happy New Year!!

I have been thinking a lot lately of how I stated last year that I was going to start blogging on a constant basis.  Well, that didn’t turn out so well.  So I decided this year, I would change up a lot of things.  This time, one of the changes being…me attempting to blog at least once a week.

So much happened in my life last year some good and some I can’t really say were bad, but they allowed me time to rethink everything and my path in my life.  So my approach towards accomplishing my goals this year and the years to come, will definitely be different and life altering.  I’m going for greater in 2012.

A symbol of change, transformation and love.

The changes that I speak of, you will see occur on my blog, and within my businesses,  COTA Designs, Inc. and Mary Kay, as well as my life.  Not trying to let everything out of the hat all at once, but from my Godly inspirations, this year is guaranteed to be better.

What changes do you plan to implement for 2012?