Ladies, we really must get away from the word B@#$%. How can you expect a guy to respect you when you allow him to call you this? When did we allow this word, to become a philosophical term of endearment?
Why is it, that when a guy calls you a five star B@#$%, a Diamond B@#$%, a classy B@#$%, or anything that personifies something good being mixed with this word, its a compliment. But if he calls you just a B@#$% then there is a problem. Women rise above this standard of allowing yourselves to be denigrated. Please do not allow the acronyms that are used in place of this word, to fool you. No B@#$%, does not stand for, “Beautiful, Individual That Causes Hardons”, or “Beautiful, Intelligent, Talented, Creative and Honest”, or “Babe In Total Control of Herself.” The definition of B@#$% is, in its noun form, the female of the dog or some other carnivorous mammals; a lewd, or immoral woman; a malicious, spiteful, or overbearing woman – sometimes as a generalized term of abuse.
Please explain to me, which one of those definitions personifies who you are? Rise above, stand up and learn from this. The only person who should affect your growth, should be you. Try not to start, by using this word to describe who you are, or what you are, because I’m sure that you think more of yourself at the end of the day than this. At least, I hope you do. I’m here to inform you of the beautiful, loving, caring, understanding, strong, intelligent women you are and/or should be.
God bless you on your future growth. Make sure you let the next guy, female, or anyone for that matter, know that you are not a b@#$%, but you are one of the rarest jewels ever. Tell them to call you Ruby, because your worth, is far more than a diamond.
In the word’s of the female rapper, Yo-Yo, “…you gotta let them know, you ain’t a B@#$% or a hoe.”
Da Fyrst Lady